Jon, you're a gentleman and while our FJ's are cool and I don't plan to sell mine anytime soon, there is no comparison between the rigs and the family. The rig goes if any decision needs to be made. You're head is on straight as usual.
As a matter of fact, I'm starting on a project this year on another non-Toyota rig (I've been plotting with MIR207 and Shadow-Warrior) and am hoping I don't start to take heat. I don't think I will but priorities have to be people over things in all cases.
Good decision!
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There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unaltered, to find the ways that you have changed.
That was one of the most honest and heartfelt stories I have ever had the pleasure to read. I can't say I understand nor do I know how you must be feeling about your need to let your FJ go, but what I do know for certain is that if more men in the world were even remotely like you, IMHO, the divorce rate would drop to zero!
You did what was right and unselfish for you and your family and willing to make sacrifices for those you love is what it is all about in the end.
Who knows.............someday you may have the opportunity to get another FJ. Time has a way of working everything out, no matter what.
Best of luck to you and your family,
Paul
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Sun Fusion 4X4 AT CQ GY DL FE XY PW CA TC QS
Mods to date: New and Improved Tire cover, with the FJ, tire tracks, and the word "Cruiser" free-hand painted by my wonderful wife
A-Trac,Dual horn,Goodyear Fortera Silent Armor's w/MB Razor wheels
Florida "Shark" specialty license plate saying "KRUSR"
As has been previously said, you are a true gentleman, genius and proud family man!
Our toys can be replaced. Family must always come first. Wives do tend to put their wishes second, but subtle and often not so subtle, show their unhappiness... You are a man of wisdom to recognize it before it became a problem.
You'll always be a part of our family and we hope you will continue to share your knowledge and experiences with us!
cheers,
dale
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Happy Trails!
TLCA #17625
LOS TRES AMIGOS IN MEXICO
TITANIUM METALLIC--A/T
ARB Bumper - Warn Winch - OME Heavy 886/895 - Bandi Mount - All-Pro Lower link skids - Bud Built skids - Snorkle - Toyota prefilter (cyclone air filter) - Optima Yellow Top Battery - Painless Dual Battery Control System - Scuba Driver Mod - Kenwood DNX 7120 GPS - A-TRAC mod - 110v add-on - Rock Rails - Rear Locker - Roof Rack - BFG TA/KO's - ARB Fridge/Freezer - '08 side visor mod - Royal Purple fluids - E3.68 Spark Plugs - All Pro Rear Bumper - All Pro Lower Links - M-Pac rear and side mounts - AT Cooler - 14 gallon Auxillery Fuel Tank
To be continued...
Jon - very wise words indeed. It is important to remember where one's priorities lies, and the FJ, even though it is the best vehicle I have ever owned - it is, and always will be, just a vehicle. I can never allow the FJ, or any vehicle, to 'replace', or take away from, what is the most important thing in my life, and that is my wife. I would do anything for her - including getting rid of the FJ if need be.
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Slàinte mhor a h-uile là a chi `s nach fhaic!
For so long as 100 men remain alive, we shall never under any conditions submit to the domination of the English. It is not for glory or riches or honours that we fight, but only for liberty, which no good man will consent to lose but with his life. - THE DECLARATION OF ARBROATH, 1320
Mods: Nuvi 350 GPS, XM Satellite Radio, Yaesu FTM-10R Mobile Ham, VE6RAO
Jon, I know exactly what you are going through since having just gone through it myself with Anita. I too put my self in front of my loves ones and their needs, and only did what I wanted too. I think your not only a great member, but again you show how truly smart you are. I’m glad you were able to see what was going on and make the necessary changes to bring the family back together again; my hat goes off to you my friend. I know myself, my marriage has never been stronger since my ordeal. It was a good wakeup call for me. Take care my friend
Mike
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"Good people sleep peacefully at night safe in the knowledge that rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf" (George Orwell)
We've never met but most of us here feel like we know you through your posts and insights. I know I've certainly enjoyed your company here.
You're getting it. Its the journey, not the destination.
Acquired wisdom means to have the ability to learn on the fly and the flexibility to adjust the plan along the way. Generally this is learned by experience. But you already know this, even if you don't think you do. You're doing it right.
Don't be a stranger. Keep us up to date with your major project and anything else that is going on in your life.
Take good care.
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KJ4ETF TLCA-18721
2007 FJ Cruiser, Black Diamond
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