That's funny....
I've noticed that you can't win, whether the spouse goes or not. (some anyway, mine included).
At the summit, she didn't go the first day (as it was Alpine Loop and 6-8 hours long), and was kinda pissed and all "why are we even here with you?". She was happy to go on Imogene, but there were several "oh crap" and "JESUS", and my personal favorite, "please don't look over there".
At least I'm not on the couch, and still on speaking terms.
I suggest jewelry and flowers. Works every time.
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