"There is no better goal in life, than overcoming obstacles"
-Oda Nobunaga. 16th Century Japan.
"Now they shall know what Fear is"
-Thulsa Doom. Conan the Destroyer
"It's not the fall that is the problem. It's the sudden stop"
-My Dad
Fear is all it is cracked up to be. It is a state of mind that can cause your leg to shake, or can actually cause you to freeze up; preventing you from doing anything at all that might worsen your condition.
Heights. Closed in spaces. Death. Flying. ... etc
There are a lot of them. I have to say that one of the things that give people a rush, is facing these fears and overcoming them. Base Jumpers. Spelunkers. Free climbers. ...and to some degree; offroaders.
I'm sure others have better stories to tell, but some of mine are:
-Being stuck 50 yards into a culvert, crawling on my stomach with no room to even get on my hands and knees, much less to turn around. Working free to continue
Forward without panicking
-Being held upside down by my ankles while I installed a bat extruder from the top of a fifth story building. I trusted my partner with my life.
-Lightning storm in the middle of a large Minnesota lake in a canoe. Seeing the lightning bolts between me and land. Waves only breaking at about 3 feet, but that is a bout 12 " higher than the bow of the canoe.
-Pushing up 9 foot waves on lake Erie and disappearing in between them in my Boston Whaler. All I could see was water much higher than my head on both sides, only to push up another wave and be on top of the world for a moment before racing down the next one. I was wondering the whole time what happens if the motor fails.
-The first time public speaking
-Extended unemployment; facing potential homelessness.
Like I said, I'm sure others have scarier stuff they could tell. ..especially Service men and women.
But what I noticed in those instances is how you have to prevent your mind from doing what it naturally wants to do. You have to overcome fear by shear will power. In essence, you need to "Just do it".
If you get through it, there is such an adreniline rush and it remains a memory the rest of your life. If you don't get through it, there might not be any memories at all
That is exactly, what makes you feel so alive when you are in the midst of it.