While I've done many in the past I absolutely hate doing it. Is there some secret I'm not aware of to solder the ground? I ruined 4 connectors and a length of wire (because now it's too short) yesterday. Keep in mind that I can't do them on a bench because some of the areas they need to go through won't fit with the connector on them. I don't understand why that has to be so hard (for me). Any tips would be greatly appreciated......