I'm looking for the best 3" lift. I mostly drive on the NY highways so I'd like to still maintain some good steering control, with all the crazy NY drivers. However I would like to have the FJ looking level throughout the lift. If anyone can help, I'd be greatly appreciative. Also trying to add some new tires to my 17" MT. How big of a tire can I go with the 3-inch lift? Should I go with a 16" wheel for that look?