Mikey, I knew you'd want to debate this, but technically you're incorrect.
If the core of your hypothesis is copper plugs are better because of the improved "conductivity' of copper vs platinum or iridium, that just doesn't hold up under scrutiny.
First, the total actual length of all the conductors carrying high voltage in spark plugs is less than an inch. In copper plugs the copper section is maybe 1 inch long, and far, far less than that for the tiny bits of platinum or iridium that are welded-on to the larger pieces of electrode material. With either copper or precious-metal construction, the total resistance of the metal conductors is in the milli-ohm range (thousandths of an ohm).
Now here's where your theory collapses ... both the original 'copper' plugs (K20HR-U11) and the later platinum and iridium plugs are RESISTOR plugs - ALL of them contain an internal 5,000 ohm resistor. This internal resistor completely negates any effect that the thousandths-of-an-ohm (0.001 ohm) electrode resistance has on spark energy or voltage rise time. At the 30,000 volt levels that the ignition system generates, even the 5,000 ohm internal resistor has very, very little effect on spark energy ... the resistor is there to reduce radiated EMI (electromagnetic noise) that couples into audio systems, etc.
To think that .001 or .005 ohms makes any detectable effect on spark a spark plug's ignition performance is like saying that you would be able to see the effect on distance traveled by adding one more drop of fuel to a full tank.
Toyota did not specify iridium plugs with the early FJs because iridium plugs were not available at that time.
I fully agree with you that the tiny 0.4mm diameter electrodes are much easier to damage by attempts to "adjust" the gap, and that's why Denso and NGK pre-gap the plugs and recommend that the gap NOT be adjusted.
Running 91 octane fuel is not MANDATORY for any FJ engine, but potentially you can get a little more power out of the engine, especially if you have carbon deposits on pistons or combustion chambers that might trigger preignition with lower octane fuels. The later dual-VVTi engines were specifically tuned to pick up an additional 20+ HP on 91 octane fuel, but were certified with 89 octane.