Hello and welcome! 4X4 vs 4X2 depends on a number of factors. Both are great vehicles. You will have to decide what you want to use the FJ for to be able to decide if one confirguration is better than the other for your intended purposes. Then you need to decide if the TRD package is worth the whatever to you as opposed to buying non TRD. All is up to you and I'm sure there are a few folks here that will provide their opinions. Other than that, quit thinking so hard and just do it!