IMO: Look at your options, don't know your deal, but think before you dump the FJ. I'm thinking right now if this was my deal, what would I do????? First.1: The wife/"Fience" would go before the FJ,(I'm not kidding here, not even a little bit). 2: Is there a car you could pick up at a used car lot some where, just for transportation until she can get what she's looking for & save up the $$$ ? It seem's to me like you have a lot into your FJ, Don't just hop off a bridge here, look at the big picture. All kidding aside, Just joking around here, Hate to see anyone have to give up an FJ, but sometimes "You gotta do what you gotta do".... There maybe an upside in the long run....In a year or two you may just come across a '07 TRD w/3,000mi on it,6"lift, new Toyo OC M/T's,FAB Four bump.'s front & rear, ARB locker in front, & too much more too list , all for $5,000 OBO, YA, I know this would/could never happen, BUT,You never know, Good Luck & try to hang on to the FJ. Don't know if this made you feel better or worse? Hope It helped..........