As an FJ and 4Runner owner, I'm interested in the types of failures that FJs and 4Runners experience. My day job includes failure analysis work, so I have an obsessive interest in exactly how and why things fail.
If along the way I see some 'information' presented in some Forum thread that is questionable, or obviously wrong, I point it out.
The hypothesis that 'clocking' the gap in the CV axle's retaining circlip somehow affects the force required to compress the circlip and get it to enter the side gear might initially seem to make sense, but a more thorough analysis of the mechanics and forces involved would seem to debunk that hypothesis.
You will agree that as the circlip first makes contact with the big conical chamfer on the side gear, any axial force pressing the clip against the chamfer MUST cause the clip to center itself on the chamfer? If simply visualizing this mentally isn't enough, it can be easily demonstrated using an arbor press or hydraulic H-frame press, a side gear, and a stepped piece of bar stock with a circlip positioned on it, simulating the stub shaft from a CV axle. Any CAD program that includes some kinematic capability would also confirm that the circlip self-centers as soon as it contacts the chamfer. Since the clip immediately self-centers on the chamfer BEFORE it even begins to compress, the initial 'clocking' position of the gap is completely irrelevant.
The questions I asked were primarily for the OP who had experienced the ball joint failure ... I was (and still am) interested in exactly how his joint failed, although I suspect that the joint was grossly worn out, had lots of internal clearance, and eventually the ball hammered itself out of the socket.
A few years ago a co-worker had a similar upper ball joint failure on a high-mileage but otherwise well maintained Tacoma that resulted in a loss of control in a location where leaving the road would have had very serious consequences, and his Taco finally stopped about 24" from leaving the road. Unfortunately, he was too shaken to take a close look at exactly how the joint failed, and we never got the full story on the exact point of failure.
My critique of the 'orient the gap' hypothesis isn't a personal attack, just sayin' that under closer scrutiny it doesn't seem to make sense.